Rebuilding house and life after a fire
This blog is a journal about a challenging time in my life due to a house fire, my son's depression, and beginning my empty nest stage of life. The fire at my house occured exactly 6 weeks before the first entry, and reliving it through writing is both difficult and helpful.The journal has caught up to real time now, but I do look back now and then to reflect and add perspective.Archives
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Unpacking Memories (98)
Muchos libros. Carlos, the man installing my new windows, said this as he saw me trying to organize the piles and piles of unpacked books stacked haphazardly on shelves in my study. They’re not just books, I told him. They’re memories … Continue reading
Posted in Books, Personal Memoir
Tagged books, books as memories, children's books, fire, furniture, German, Jewish, Judaism, memories, moving, my life, personal memoir, Russian, soccer, Spanish
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One Person’s Junk (97)
Unpacking one’s possessions is a process of discovery. Or rather, rediscovery. I’ve moved often enough in my life, packing and unpacking many of the same things, so this shouldn’t come as a surprise. Each time I pack, I weed out … Continue reading
Posted in Moving, New Beginning, Personal Memoir, Personal Property
Tagged California, Downscaling, fire, Germany, Israel, Jewish, kibbutz Ketura, mementos, Mexico, moving, my life, objects as memories, personal memoir, Russia, Russian, tchochkes, Turkey
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What’s God got to do with it? (40)
“God has other plans for you.” When I heard this, just a few days after the fire and my son’s hospitalization, I was both startled and even angry. I quickly subdued my initial reaction because I knew the speaker was … Continue reading
Posted in Depression, God, House Fire, Jewish, My Life, Personal Memoir, Shabbat
Tagged comfort, fire, God, Jewish, my life, personal memoir, son's depression, spirituality
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Speaking un poco español (37)
I call myself a language jock; others might say language nerd. Tomayto, tomahto. Either way, I’ve been fascinated with foreign languages and cultures since I was a little girl. I think my first real exposure to anything foreign was when … Continue reading
Posted in Foreign language, House Fire, India, My Life, Personal Memoir, Rebuilding, Spanish
Tagged German, house, Jewish, my life, personal memoir, Puerto Ricans, Russian, Spanish
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Silver Linings (30)
“At least you’ll get some new furniture.” “Your house will be more marketable after renovating it.” “How lucky you have insurance to pay for a fresh start.” These are some of the reactions I got when people heard about my house … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging, Change, Colleagues, Daughter, Downscaling, Family, Friends, House, House Fire, House Sale, My Life, New Beginning, Personal Memoir, Personal Property, Rebuilding, Shopping, Son, Stress, Uncategorized, Writing
Tagged academic, colleagues, daughter, dissertation, ER, family, fire, hospital, house, Jewish, master's thesis, my life, personal memoir, silver lining, son, stress, writing
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What’s in your pantry? (29)
Do you know what’s in your pantry? What about your refrigerator? Could you name the basic staples, the brands, and their prices? Do you even care? When it came to the pricier electronics and furniture in my house, I had photos. My … Continue reading
Posted in Austin, Contractor, Food, Holidays, House Fire, Insurance, Jewish, My Life, New Beginning, Personal Memoir, Personal Property, Shopping, Son, Uncategorized
Tagged baking, fire, food, house, insurance, Jewish, kitchen, Manischewitz, money, my life, Passover, personal memoir, son
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Delayed Reactions (23)
Family, close friends, and colleagues heard about my house fire very quickly. Now that I’m writing a blog about my house fire and how it is affecting my life, I want readers. It’s still a bit scary to put my … Continue reading
Posted in Blogging, Colleagues, Facebook, Friends, House Fire, Jewish, My Life, New Beginning, Personal Memoir, Relationships, Social Media, Uncategorized
Tagged California, facebook, fire, friends, Germany, Jewish, my life, personal memoir, reactions, teaching, Texas
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It’s just stuff, right? (11)
Now that my son is recovering back at home and the dogs are safe and relatively happy, my attention turns to my material possessions. The insurance appraiser and contractor have already walked me through the house for an initial survey. … Continue reading
Posted in Contractor, Daughter, Germany, Holidays, House, House Fire, House Sale, Insurance, Jewish, My Life, Personal Memoir, Personal Property, Turkey
Tagged contractor, daughter, fire, German, Germany, Hanukah, house, insurance, Jewish, kitchen, my life, personal memoir, Rosh Hashanah, tea, Turkish
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